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1. The Mistress’s Daughter, by A.M. Homes (Penguin Books paperback, 2007)
This will be of especial interest to adoptees who are members of interfaith families, and biological adult children and grandchildren of intermarriage). Homes, a brilliantly-talented and award-winning author, is an adoptee, raised by secular Jewish parents, and who identifies as a Jew.
The book is a memoir of the very sad (though sometimes comic) consequences of being “found” by her unstable biological parents, both of whom were themselves patrilineal adult children of Jewish-Christian intermarriages. Both of her half-Jewish birth parents were hopelessly confused about their ethnitic(ies) and religion(s), one identifying as Jewish most of the time and one identifying as Christian most of the time.
2. Jewish, Christian, Chewish, or Eschewish?: Interfaith Marriage Pathways for the New Millennium, by Rabbi Reeve Robert Brenner
Rabbi Dr. Robert Seltzer recommends Reeve Brenner’s “valuable new book on Jewish and interfaith marriage” in the following words: “This posting is to call your attention to his newest published work, a wide-ranging, broadminded, comprehensive, and knowledgeable guide to Judaism for non-conventional (and some conventional) young married and to-be-married couples: Jewish, Christian, Chewish, or Eschewish?: Interfaith Marriage Pathways for the New Millennium.” The book can be downloaded for free via his website:
3. Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret” by Judy Blue, came out originally in 1970 and was re-released in 2006.
Margaret is an 11 year-old with a Christian mother and a Jewish father whose family has just moved fromNew York CitytoNew Jersey. She is very conflicted about religion and her identity, and this is one of the main themes of the novel. Her maternal grandparents want her to be Christian.
Her paternal grandmother sees her as Jewish and introduces her to synagogue services. Her parents largely raised her without a religion. When she moves to New Jersey, she discovers that this makes her an outcast, and so she starts attending both church and synagogue services in an attempt to figure out where she belongs.
The book is better-known for its frank treatment of the issues surrounding female puberty, but many half-Jewish people would relate to Margaret’s struggles with her identity, and it might particularly appeal to young half-Jewish girls. (Thanks to Jessie for this item!)
http://www.amazon.com/Are-You-There-God-Margaret/dp/0440904196
4. “Girl Meets God,” by Lauren Winner, published by Random House Trade Paperbacks, 2003.
Professor Winner, a patrilineal half-Jewish person, describes her long journey from Reform Judaism to Orthodox Judaism to the Episcopal Church and evangelical Christian views. Winner describes a painful psychological and spiritual struggle that will be familiar to many half-Jewish people who have left Judaism for Christianity.
Raised by divorced parents, a Jewish father and a Christian mother, Winner’s mother faithfully followed the divorce agreement and raised Winner as a Reform Jew. As an adult, Winner went to college and became interested in Orthodox Judaism. She studied Orthodox Judaism intensively and converted to Orthodox Judaism, since the Orthodox Jews would not accept her as a Jew otherwise.
Winner fell in love with several Orthodox Jewish men who were interested in marrying her, and was bitterly disillusioned when their families broke up the relationships, on the grounds that their families wanted the men to marry women who were “real Jews.”
Winner became interested in Christianity and converted via the Church of England during a long stay in the UK. She has since become a prominent Christian writer on many spiritual topics, including an examination of the Episcopal Church in Virginia during the colonial era.
As an only child, Winner’s choices were especially painful, because no matter which faith she chose, the other parent suffered a good deal of pain because there were no other siblings to participate in that parent’s faith-based and secular culture.
5. SEED COVENANT: Abraham’s SEED, DNA and Patrilineal Descent
Jewish fathers determine Jewish children, not their mothers, according to research done by author Mika’el ben David.
Patrilineal descent was the only known lineage of ancient Israel. God’s covenant to circumcise Abraham and his seed established YHWH as the God of the Jews and passed Jewishness to children through their male parents. Sinai law established circumcision as written law. Children in the patriarchal society of ancient Israel were identified through the lineage of their fathers.
Today, Rabbinic Judaism practices matrilineal descent, whereby Jewishness is determined by the child’s mother. The author suggests that this created an artificial separation between the circumcised Jewish male and his God, YHWH, so he could no longer pass on his own Jewishness to his children.
Using the Hebrew Bible, molecular genetics and historical documents, proof on several levels is offered on how and why Jewish fathers produce Jewish children, and that matrilineal descent never existed in any form in ancient Israel. The fathers always determined their children’s lineage and their God, YHWH. Children born to circumcised Jewish males, both male and female children, are Jewish.
726 pages; $59.00 http://www.wix.com/mikaelll/seed-covenant
